Gender blind housing policy
I'm going to get right down to business
here. It's spring semester, and that means
room draw. For those of you who have not
really considered the nature of this ritual or
who have yet to experience it, I will outline it.
First, each student must pick his or her poison.
Will I enter my name in the chem-free draw?
Dialogue? Regular? Once the student has
weighed the options and decided, he or she is
randomly assigned a number. The lower numbers
get to choose first, starting with the rising
senior assigned number 1 and going down
through the classes.
Each student is also assigned a letter. The
letter determines which rooms he or she is eligible
to choose from. The floor plans that are
spread out on room draw night are labeled
with corresponding letters: some are labeled
"M," others are labeled "F." While it may not
necessarily seem so at first, this policy is discriminatory
and quite distressing for certain
students.
The obvious inequality of gender quotas in
rooming falls on transgendered students--particularly
those who identify as "gender queer"
or otherwise don't adhere to a binary system
of gender. Room draw forces transgender people
into a category, requires them to deny the
identities they know themselves to be and
adopt a false identity that determines what
they are and aren't allowed to do. This process
denies transgender students the right to be
themselves. Colby's non-discrimination policy
includes gender identity, but the housing
policy fails to live up to this. All gender identities--
not just male and female--must be
honored.
The housing policy is further troubled by
gay, lesbian, bisexual and other sexually variant
students. I will outline it for you: a lesbian
student and her girlfriend are able to live in the
same room, regardless of what this may imply.
A heterosexual couple, however, must live
with at least one locking door between them.
At first glance it seems here that the heterosexual
couple is being wronged, denied a
"right" that their lesbian friends enjoy. But really
what this situation reveals is a set of assumptions
and prejudices not only about gays
and lesbians but about college students in general.
As far as keeping the genders separated in
the dorms by a door, I ask, "What's the point?"
If they want to, couples will still sleep in the
same bed. And if you are worried about a male
student taking advantage of his female roommate
in her sleep (a fairly absurd suggestion),
I wonder why you are not worried about a lesbian
student doing the same thing.
In order to eliminate this inequality, I
would like to propose a "gender-blind" housing
policy. This policy would eliminate gender
quotas in room draw. Lottery numbers
would be assigned without consideration of a
student's gender, and students would be able
to choose from any unoccupied room when
their number is called. Additionally, students
would be allowed to choose persons of any
gender as a roommate(s). Incoming freshmen
would be given the option of gender-blind
housing, or they would be able to specify
which gender they desire to live with. A long
term goal the school should set in order to
achieve truly gender-blind, all-inclusive housing
is the addition of unisex bathrooms to all
of the dormitories, and this should be something
that is seriously considered in future
renovations.
The effects of a gender-blind housing policy
are manifold. First, it would encourage
diversity in the student applicant pool. It
should not come as a surprise that, as the policy
now stands, many transgender students
do not even consider Colby as an option
when applying to college. Second, it would
encourage a candor about sexuality that we
all too often do not have in New England.
What is it that we are assuming by requiring
men and women to live in different rooms?
What does this say about our views of heterosexuality
and homosexuality? Third, it
would bring people of diverse backgrounds
together. We do not require students of different
races to live in different rooms, and
many students are truly exposed to diversity
for the first time when they meet their freshman
roommates. Why shouldn't we extend
this exposure to include to spectrum of gender
that we all navigate?
All of this I ask you to consider, as it may
not have crossed your minds. Perhaps those
who have a more intimate understanding of
the housing policy than I do can begin to take
steps towards a gender-blind policy. After all,
Colby College, what have we got to lose?